Unforgettable decisions ........

Friendship is like a decision for life, ..... the more careful you decide, the more happier you would be in future.
Well I do not want to talk about good friends and bad friends, instead I would like to talk on safe friends and risky friends because, we cannot just brand a person regarding his character, that is like good or bad, but we can classify friends into safe for us, or risky for us .
First let me talk about the bitter truth,
Having risky friends is like standing on a tall building, where one small move would totally be fatal.
So the choice and decision depends on you, if you are really a good friend and you do not want to lose a friendship just because your friend is not very safe for you, you can very well change him but only through a gradual process.
"Be slow in choosing a friend, but slower in changing him."- Anonymous
This is one of the most precise quotes which I found in the net, pertaining to this blogpost.
As I said, you must make sure what kind of friend you are deciding to have a good relationship with because once decided, you are friends for life.........
Now let me come to the good part,
"A real friend is someone who walks in when the rest of the world walks out." - Myself !!!!
I cannot believe I came up with such a quote, I still do not know if it can be called a quote but I liked it.
Let me come to the point now,

Few

Relationships

In

Earth

Never

Die
As you see, choosing the right friends will get you somewhere where only people such as Me,(:-p) have gone.
It is really very interesting to observe that only friends who get pissed off with you for no reason or for a reason which you do not know, and a few others who really get on your nerves and irritate you a lot, would be ending up as the ones understanding you and trying to help you at a very crucial point in your life.
Many safe friends may bring hope in your life and those few who really make you change are the ones who you really deserve.
So my friends, I conclude by saying that,
Friendship is an one-of-a-kind relationship which no one can enjoy other than true friends as,
"With true friends...even water drunk together is sweet enough." and ...............
"Without friends no one would choose to live."

Revolutionizing Thoughts

Till now, I have spoken only about my life and been very selfish regarding what I have been thinking.
From today onwards, let this blog be interesting to those who read it and like it, as I am going to target self-empowerment and to talk about positive thoughts and feelings regarding life, as today has been my most unpredictable day of my entire life........ as much more had happened today and I am sure I cannot blog about it because I do not want to publicize it but only want to cherish the moments of understanding.
So everyday, I shall talk on stuff which infuses encouragement and hope into many and also I am going to end the posts by a famous Quote.
Let us see what we have today..............
Since today has once again changed my whole thoughts on my point of view of life, let me now start with one of the most basic and most primary thought in almost everyone's life,
Attitude,
One may ask, what much has attitude got to do with our lives but the answer, ....... lies in the question itself.
The way we look around us, the way we understand facts, the way we prioritize our feelings, the way we assume things, the way we perceive sentences, everything depends on our attitude alone.
We can utilize our time properly if and only if we have a proper attitude and an equivalently important responsibility because the time I spend thinking about how I compare myself with somebody else or worrying about somebody else's attitude towards me is time I could have put to better use.
Therefore I mean to say that all we have to do is get the right attitude, along with some amount of responsibilities and a little past experience will get us to a height which we would have not predicted at all.
I thus conclude with a great saying,
"The greatest discovery of this generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind." - Anonymous

A New Way Of Life

I am not going to portray myself as another person in this post but I am just going to talk non-stop about something else........
Never lose Hope .... One can perceive these three words in millions of ways, A young child who is not studying that much and only manages to pass can take it in the sense of positiveness and do better next time, A young man who does not get his dream job because he flopped his interview may look at these three words as a blessing in disguise and apply for another job which he may not have liked but of course, "Some thing is better than Nothing.", like these many people can view at these three words depending upon their situation but One Person told me those three words which changed my whole point of view about life at once,
None other than .......... Abhishek.R
Who is he to tell me stuff regarding my life, How dare he bother me, What right does he have to interfere in my life that too at this point of time when I am so depressed and misunderstood?? .......... were not the questions which came into my mind, but the questions which came were, How can person like Abhishek.R understand me when weeks before I had portrayed him as a negative personality ??
Then I changed......... I changed my opinion too and now It feels a lot better when I can in-fact talk to person , face to face and make him understand what is going over me............
I now understand, even though some friends who you regarded as very close and even they regarded you as close to them, at a particular point of time lose trust on you, somewhere, in some part of the world, there would be person, born to understand people, understand me ....
That person may be anybody, it may even be your closest friend, your worst , most hated enemy, or some unknown person whom you have never known till now but the fact is, there is such a person and I am still trying to find that special someone .......
I know not what may happen regarding my life at present but I very well know Life always changes and that is the only permanent belief I have towards life.
Never lose hope and always try to achieve because,
If You cannot, then You must................................

Change Is Consistent

Whenever I think about myself as a person, only one thing comes to my mind ......... Change
All we have to do is, change ourselves for the better and just listen to our innermost thoughts and feelings ........... After all we are ourselves and If we do not listen , who else will ????
In this blog, I am going to represent myself as a totally different character, not what I was or not what I am.............. I am going to represent myself as what I always wanted to be.
The thing is You got to be Yourself wherever you go, whomever you talk to and even if no one is watching you, you should always be the same.
Then why change? For the simple fact that Change has to be there, You change to the good, or change to the bad but still it is change and it will always take place.
One thing to remember is getting good marks alone is not enough to have good and trustworthy friends and also, getting bad marks will not fetch you anything.
I look at myself like a person who has done everything perfectly and always is of good to both myself and others.Now I may ask myself, is this enough?? If I have to change, what should I change to?
The Answer is simple, it is always simple and it still will be simple unless and until you understand exactly what is change........
Change is not what you mean by physical change, mental change, emotional change, visible change, complete change, good change, bad change, but it finally means a simple change.
Aim for the better and even if you do not progress, at least look at it as you have not retarded.
One may ask, What exactly am I trying to express in my blog, because until now whatever I have typed is superficial......
Well what I exactly wanted to express was, Change not for others but Change for yourself because that Change is the change which is really going to help you and all the others around you.
This role is over and I shall be back with another role to play and therefore,
Let us Change ........